Tuesday, December 6, 2011

Anniversary Woes

Hanging on the wall of my living room above the stairs is a canoe oar. It belongs to my husband and might seem an odd bit of home decor . . . but there's a story behind it. I first noticed it while my husband and I were still dating, tucked in a corner of his apartment. The handle is inscribed "D. Lopez, 1980". I asked after it and this is what he said:

"I made that [said very proudly]. I carved it at boy scout camp. We all did one. It was June of 1980, the month you were born. I was 15. That summer I was chased into a lake by a moose [apparently moose can be quite aggressive] and had my tent washed out in the rain [for your sake I edited out the bit about correct placement of a tent at a campsite]. Still, that whole trip is one of my favorite memories. The best part was one night we all laid out and watched a meteor shower. It was beautiful, even then, but more beautiful in my memory now. It took twenty years for me to realize it, but that night I watched the soul of my true love fall to earth. It was there for a second and then it was gone. It took awhile, but I finally found her again."

Not bad, huh? It worked on me :)

It's moments like those that I try and remember on days like today . . . when he forgets our anniversary. He said he knew that December 6th is our anniversary but forgot that today was December 6th. I understood the distinction but it mattered little to me. I stomped around the house in a huff most of the day. Still, he stayed home with me and followed me about the house . . . at a safe distance, of course, since I have been known to snap at him for hovering. Eventually, I was won over and the early afternoon found us snuggling on the sofa with Mina trying to wedge her way between us.

"What God as put together, let no man put asunder." I believe that, truly. Not even my husband, with his absent-minded ways, can make me forsake the wondrous gift I was blessed with through him . . . a gift that is made precious by days like today as much as by any other.


Jennie Lynn


Mouse said...

today is our wedding anniversary 23 years and counting ..lol .. glad you had good day in the end ..lol :) love mouse xxxx

cucki said...

i love your post so much..
sending you hugs xx

Penny said...

What a lovely post!! Not so much about the hubby forgetting the date, ;) but the story about boy scout camp and the meteor shower..... just wonderful!!
Happy Anniversary!!

Sassafras and Winterberry said...

Marriage...so sacred and mysterious. Love your post. Glad hubby was able to push past the stuff to snuggle...I always appreciate when they can do that!! Happy Anniversary!

Stitching Cat said...

Jennie Lynn, loved reading your post and I would have an oar in my living room too if that was behind it! So endearing and wonderful at this time of year. Happy Anniversary to you both.

jennifer768 said...

Happy Anniversary! I loved reading your post! It brought a chuckle and a smile for I can see myself in the very same huff. Glad it worked out in the end, for what is better that snuggling with the one you love! Hugs,Jen

Catherine said...

What a sweet story! May you enjoy each other for many more years!

Beckyjean said...

Happy Anniversary!!


Robin at The Primitive Hutch said...

Happy Anniversary!!!
Hope you have many more with fond memories!!!
Loved the post!
Shame on hubby for forgetting an important day!!!
But glad to hear you still snuggled!
Prim Blessings

dixiesamplar said...

Ah, men!!! Can't live with em', can't strangle em'...and get away with it, LOL! Sorry he forgot your special day...but, really, isn't everyday with him special??!! Sounds like he was duly repentent...glad you were able to come around and enjoy your time together. He sounds like a keeper, reagrdless :o)

Michelle~Sugar House Creations said...

What a great love story! It would have worked on me too. :)